The Hummingbird: Curiosity and Careers

There are some conversations that repeat on you at the most inconvenient moments. They are the long past conversations that join you in your morning shower, or when your brain refuses to shut down and you find yourself staring at the ceiling until the early hours.

Well, this is mine:

You need to pick a career soon

I know. The horror.

These very nonthreatening words were spoken about seven years ago by the parent of a close friend of mine. I’m sure he meant well by them, but for some reason these words have played havoc ever since.

I feel the onset of mild anxiety when i look at this picture

Before we continue with this blog post (and disguised therapy session) let me provide you with some context.

My friend comes from a wonderful family. There was something about this family dynamic that was contagious. They were warm, outgoing people who loved to play card games at lunch and then go on a 20 mile bike ride together. When they were not being a successful family unit, they were achieving success in their careers. From cousins to uncles, they all appeared to be oozing focus and ambition. My dear friend was no different; he knew what he wanted to do from the start and he was prepared to work hard for it.

During one of my last visits and whilst on a long walk in the countryside, we started discussing the inevitable post-university life. I had toyed with some job ideas, but none of them truly stuck and I had openly admitted this. It was at this point when my friend’s dad turned to me and said, “You need to pick a career soon, Amy“.

For whatever reason, my mind decided to blow this way out of proportion. It became a focal point in decision making and years later I was still spending countless hours researching job pathways in an attempt to map out a viable career. I began desperately trying to find my “eureka” moment, praying that it would arrive when I read through the next job description.

This does not look like fun to me.

The only thing I ever managed to create was a big anxious mess. When it wasn’t anxiety about making a decision, it was anxiety about missing an opportunity. Eventually it translated to hobbies too. I was continually throwing myself into extra curricular activities in an attempt to pin down a interest that I could possibly pass off as a career. I felt like i was wasting time and avoiding this became an obsession for me. It was ridiculous.

A few months ago, I was able to take a step back and finally accepted my fate. The epiphany is not coming.

Despite the continued lack of direction, I did learn a valuable lesson about time. The cyclical process of worrying about how long I was taking to “pick a career” ended up being the biggest time waster of all. Initially I felt that those years since graduation had been spent aimlessly wandering. I had no house, no mortgage, no 2.3 kids and definitely no £40k+ job with benefits – all the things a “successful adult” human needs to have, right?

Instead, I dabbled. I dipped my toes in to anything that peaked my interest enough. If it didn’t fit, or if I didn’t fit – I moved on.

To other more rational minded human beings, this may sound like a bit of a cop-out. Surely I could become an expert in my field and just focused on one career, one passion or interest? Maybe I was just lazy, incompetent or work-shy? My mind went through this time and time again; until one day, I accepted that I “didn’t fit”. I accepted the cliché of the square peg and the round hole.

hummingbird-1336491So I started the searching process again. Except this time, I shifted my focus to finding out why.

A late night internet journey eventually took me to a talk by Elizabeth Gilbert, the author of “Eat Pray Love”. In this video Liz addresses an alternative view to the “follow your passion and stick with it” camp; a mantra she admits she was once fully subscribed to. Liz explains that this view is perfect for the “Jack-Hammers” of our society. These are the people who are lucky enough to know what their purpose in life is and how they plan on spend their working days.

Liz acknowledges that this is not for everyone and that some individuals struggle to ever find their passion or their “life’s work” – these are the Hummingbirds. These are the souls who are forever moving from job to job, just as the hummingbird moves between flora and fauna. They are driven by pure curiosity and by not having a passion, they can end up being just as fulfilled as their Jack-Hammer siblings.

It clicked. I guess I found my epiphany after all.

To “follow your passion” is definitely a solid path in life and one that i would urge people to fight for. But what happens when you have lots of passions? From video game design to the history of medieval asceticism – my scope for topics is vast. Through just moving and taking up new, yet sometimes unrelated challenges, I was working on skills and gaining valuable experience. I enjoy learning and I am simply interested in things that I find…well, interesting. And despite what society may tell us, this DOES have value.

Although this society is tough on all of us, it is arguably a little simpler to navigate for the natural Jack-Hammers. For us Hummingbirds, it leaves us questioning our internal compass and can often demand that we become a round peg for that round hole. I personally found myself wanting to prove my worth through my choice in career. Although, it was fairly obvious from my degree choice (Religious Studies) that this would never be a straightforward task – and no, the nunnery and convent life will NEVER be an option!

The whole internal struggle over this issue left me wondering whether there was something wrong with me but i eventually realised that i was forcing myself into the mould of another’s expectations. Whether its careers, body shape or size, your living arrangements – everyone has an opinion. But truly, no one actually cares. They may think about it for an ounce of time but they soon saunter off, back into the self absorption of their own lives. I’d be surprised if anybody actually remembers that day, let alone still gives a toss about how i spend my working week.


Just like so many other fellow human beings, I am driven by curiosity. Following this path may not allow us to discover what we do want to do, but we can definitely work out what we don’t want to do (like becoming a nun…)

Perhaps I will be lucky enough to find myself in a job or career that turns out to my true calling, but maybe I won’t. I could develop some cross-diagonal interests or skills that allow me to break out of the 9-5 routine; but maybe I won’t. Either way, I can say this for certain – I will continue to remain unrelentingly interested in the world around me.

I am grateful that this Hummingbird nature drives me to experience new things, all whilst feeding the wanderlust that propels me to my next destination. It is why I take on more than I can probably handle and it is why I study a plethora of short courses around my 9-5 job. It is why I choose to stay in haunted castles for fun and why i will be moving to a new country within the next year or so. It is a sustaining life force that can provide you with the courage to challenge, to step out of your comfort zone and to give you that final push to take those risks.

I am sure that the feelings of “Oh, God. What am i doing with my life?!” will continue to blind side me at 3:35pm on a Tuesday afternoon. But what i will remember is that there IS value in not knowing the answer to this question.  

Remember, there is no need to rush – you are where you need to be.

The place where you are right now
God circled on a map for you
wherever your eyes and arms and heart can move
Against the earth and the sky,
the beloved has bowed there-

The beloved has bowed there knowing
You were coming…



A New Direction

“I never want to stop travelling!”

– Myself, early 2013 (probably before the bedbugs)

I am in England.

I haven’t left the country for a year.

It did help that the UK looked like this last summer. Taken in Salcombe, Devon
It did help that the UK looked like this last summer. Taken in Salcombe, Devon

So, what has changed? Well, first of all i got a full time job in my hometown. My intention was to save up as much money as possible in order to fly off again at the first chance that presented itself. The position was even a fixed term contract – perfect! However, my move-to-Canada-and-work-on-a-ranch plans were promptly launched out the window by a 6ft 4 male species that i met at my new workplace. Yep, it happened. I met someone and i actually couldn’t be happier. I also learnt to drive (finally), got myself a contract iPhone (FINALLY) and all of this before Christmas. Oh, and the fixed term contract job? I ended up getting a promotion. Basically, these are all variables that will prevent an individual from gallivanting round the world.

Before my travels, i spent a large amount of my time researching places to visit, costs, journey times…symptoms of various exotic diseases (just in case). Now that i have no desire to escape this rainy island for the foreseeable future, i have been focusing on my other interests. It is because of this change of heart, that my blog will also take a similar direction. You can’t really write about travel when you’re quite happy to mooch around the town you were born in.

However, there is one interest that rivals my love of travelling. It is also an interest that has inspired me to journey across the world to visit certain historical places – The Paranormal. Are you a skeptic or believer? Either way, everyone has a  natural curiosity for this subject which makes for one hell of a dinner party conversation. This innate curiosity eventually developed into a firm obsession, through the assistance of some strange esoteric encounters. After graduating from university in 2010 i joined my local investigation team and have been lucky enough to visit some incredible historical locations.

Leap Castle, Ireland – One of my favourite investigation locations

Although the supernatural  is now firmly nestled within popular culture (cheers, Ghost Hunters! *cough*mosthauntednearlyruinedeverything*cough*) investigating haunted locations is still one of the more unusual weekend activities for a 20-something. I am more likely to be found clutching a night vision camera than a drink in an overcrowded bar. I had always planned to write about my interest in the paranormal but as the weird events in my life increase, i am inclined  to start documenting these on a regular basis. These will include my past experiences, my formal investigations with my local team and the main inspiration for this blog – my house. Even as i am writing this, the landing light just turned itself on. 

The activity in this household tends to wax and wane. Lights being turned on and off is small in comparison to what i have experience here. Believe me, it can kick off in a spectacular fashion. I will state now that i am  a believer in paranormal activity but what is causing these events, remains a mystery to me. I will always look for the rational explanation but i have learnt that there are certain occasions where happenings cannot easily be explained. For arguments sake i call them “ghosts” but i am not quite able to say that these are definitely “spirits of the dead”. For all we know, these could be demons, a serious mental condition (lets hope not), a natural phenomenon or even a glimpse into a parallel universe. We just don’t know and that both terrifies and fascinates us.

So, expect some weird stories and videos on here soon.

Any questions, ideas, theories or even explainations – let me know. I love a good debunk.

Australia: Vegemite > Marmite


“I’m never going to Australia. They have too many things that can kill you!”

– An Idiot (It was me); circa 1989-2012

For the longest time, i vowed never to go to Australia and this was not a decision that was grounded in any rational thought. The reason was purely for my perceived health and safety. When i go abroad, i appear to attract nature. And what happens when a substantial amount of a country’s wildlife is said to be venomous? Amy is mortally wounded. I was terrified for such a long time and i begun to have night terrors about Huntsmen spiders during the lead up to the trip. But as it turns out (and as most Aussie’s will inform you) the wildlife steers pretty clear of humans and the encounters that i did have were not as horrific as i had imagined.

Nope. Full of nope.

Australia is that destination that everyone wants to visit but not many will venture. This is especially true of friends and family here in the United Kingdom. Flights are expensive, Australia itself is pricey and over 40 hours of flight time does not sound appealing for a two week holiday. Therefore, it is one of the major stops on a round the world/gap year itinerary.

One aspect i did not plan for was the impending emotional roller coaster it proved to be. I will elaborate on this further but first of all, here are some of my favourite places in The Great Southern Land.

Let me make this clear – Australia is big. After mapping out some itineraries on Google-maps, we decided it would be best to take the Greyhound Bus from place to place. We started our trip off in Cairns for New Years Eve and made our way down the East Coast, ending up in Sydney by the end of January. Even a month of travel pushed our itinerary to the limit, even with a few overnight 10+ hour bus rides. It is mind blowing to see first hand, just how vast this country is and how far away the towns are from each other. Whilst in Agnes Water, i browsed through some real estate brochures and one of the positives of the properties was “Only 2 hours from Gladstone and 3 hours from Bundaberg!”

Whitehaven Beach
Ain’t got nothing on Bournemouth beach.

With all this space and countryside, there was a lot of room for some truly incredible places. Australia’s coastline is the most spectacular that i have ever seen. Whilst sailing the Whitsundays and sitting on the pure white sand of Whitehaven Beach, i suddenly found myself in the most beautiful place i had ever been visited. This was beyond postcard worthy and it is one of those places that you have to see for yourself. We sailed from Airlie beach with Cruise Whitsundays on their big purple catamaran. The day included snorkeling as well as free drinks and an all you can eat BBQ, aka a backpacker’s dream. Unfortunately, no other beach will ever compare to Whitehaven, which is especially true of the English Channel and its chilly neighbours. But at least there’s no jellyfish here, just pale skinned Brits and overpriced beach huts.

Fraser Island
Fraser Island 4×4 Tour. Drive fast and try not to crash into dingoes.

After a night in Agnes Water, we took a 4 hour drive south to Rainbow beach, which is another area of spectacular coastline. It was here that my phobia of dangerous wildlife was to be tested, as we were about to spend three days on Fraser Island – and we were going to be camping. We stayed with Dingos Resort and had an incredible but exhausting few days. Fraser Island is a World Heritage Site, Queensland’s largest island and a place that should be on every Australia itinerary. During our stay we explored inland lakes, drove jeeps on the beach, hiked to incredible beauty spots and all with the most horrendous hangovers in 40°c heat. I won’t give too much away here as i intend to give Fraser Island a page of its own. It really deserves it.

There was also a lot of spiders. This seems to be a running theme in my travels.

Sydney skyline from Taronga Zoo.

Oh, Sydney. I loved you.

I arrived in the iconic city after a 13 hour overnight bus ride from Byron Bay. It was 46°C, i was carrying a massive backpack and naturally, i got lost. This was also my first experience of travelling solo in a city. As you may know, i had been travelling with one of my good friends up until Brisbane. Unfortunately she had to return back to the UK and my trip changed dramatically. I no longer had the safety net of having another person with me. It was initially terrifying and i spent all my nights in Byron Bay crying into my pillow whilst my dorm mates explored the night life. I will also admit that i watched a lot of Eat Pray Love during that time. It was turbulent, i was a bit of a drama queen and i think it definitely impacted on my Oz experience. After a week of crying to Julia Roberts and wishing that i could find a handsome Brazilian man in the hostel kitchen, i pulled myself together and explored Sydney.

I finally had a taste of what solo travelling is all about. I had been told that you meet more people when you travel on your own and it is definitely true. You can be sat eating ramen noodles all alone on a sofa somewhere and within a few minutes have an invitation to a night out. I visited the Blue Mountains with an English girl who i had met the night before, spent the day at Taronga Zoo with an American guy i met on the ferry and we even met up at the airport the next day as we had similar flight times. That just doesn’t happen in everyday life! Travelling makes you more social, it forces you out of your comfort zone and you can benefit greatly from that. One of the best solo travel experiences i had was in Sydney, and although it sounds a little odd, it was actually very liberating – I went to see The Hobbit on my own at the IMAX. I had a great time and i didn’t even have to share my overpriced popcorn.

Now, lets finish this post up with a lovely Australian wildlife collage.


New Zealand: Can I Come Back Now?

New Zealand

They can keep their heaven. When I die, I’d sooner go to Middle Earth. ”

– George R.R. Martin

Christmas Eve Sunset – Queenstown, New Zealand

After 13 time zones, a string of bad on-flight movies and a short stop in Singapore, we finally arrived in Auckland, New Zealand. There are various ways of exploring these two islands, but for this trip we chose to go with Kiwi Experience – a decision that was largely made on my lack of driving ability. The big green bus is notorious for its parties and is favored by the young backpackers on the travelling circuits. I was a little concerned that i was going to be spending the next four weeks, hungover and surrounded by immature teenagers. In reality, i was hungover (naturally) but surrounded by friends of all ages. Travelling with Kiwi was definitely the best option for us as we were only staying for a month but ended up seeing a lot in this short time. We purchased the “Rangi” pass and traveled along the following route during December 2012:-  Auckland – Paihia (Bay of Islands) – Cathedral Cove – Waitomo – Rotorua – Taupo – River Valley – Wellington – Kaiteriteri – Westport – Lake Mahinapua – Franz Josef – Wanaka – Queenstown.

The most famous attribute of New Zealand is its landscape. At the risk of sounding like every other travel writer, you really do feel like you have fallen into Middle Earth, Narnia or some other fantastical land. Many tourists that visit this spectacular country will join the specialised set tours, visit The Weta Cave in Wellington or trek out to more remote places such as Mt Potts Station, known to Ring fans as Edoras

Left: Cathedral Cove, Coromandel Peninsula, North Island. Right: Taranaki Falls, Tongariro National Park, North Island.

But for some reason, this Lord of the Rings buff never quite made it onto any of the movie sets or location tours. Its just another excuse to return to this wonderful country. I did get to talk to a rather unique gentlemen about his Tolkien experiences over a game of beer pong in Auckland. He informed me that he was able to sneak into Hobbiton via a 2 hour hike in the middle of the night, where he proceeded to break into Bilbo’s house to take ridiculous photos. Although i never did get to see the evidence, i do hope this tale was true. Even so, the scenery is so breathtaking here that there is really no need for a movie tour, Middle Earth is everywhere you look.

On the North Island we drove past fields in the Waikato region that resembled the rolling hills of the Shire and hiked Tongariro National Park, the backdrop for Mordor. Just as i thought New Zealand couldn’t get anymore stunning, we set foot on the South Island. It is here that the geography really stands out from anywhere else i have ever visited. I explored the beautiful pristine coastline of the Abel Tasman park in the north, saw glaciers in the middle of rainforests and kayaked across a lake at the foot of the Misty Mountains (aka Mount Cook).

If you aren’t pretending you’re a Hobbit, then you will probably find yourself tied to a cord and about to jump off a high ledge. New Zealand really is the land of the adrenaline junkie and it did not disappoint. There are plenty of activities to keep the thrills going and even the smaller towns seem to have their own bungy or skydiving center.

Rafting at River Valley - not in the river.
Rafting at River Valley – not in the river.
And here we are in the river.
Rafting at River Valley – In the river.

One of our first big stop offs was in Waitomo to visit the famous Black Water Rafting Company. These guys have been going since 1987, so you know you’re in knowledgeable hands. The activities here consist of a variety of packages which take you into the surrounding caves, through rivers, tight spaces and you can even try your hand at abseiling and technical rope work. I went for the Labyrinth option, a tubing adventure through Ruakuri cave where we got to float past glowworms and jump off waterfalls. It was very cold, very wet and it was definitely worth the exhaustion! We were even rewarded with a chocolate fish halfway through – an unexpected but much needed sugary boost in a subterranean river.

The “lets be cold and wet” theme continued down through the North Island. The Kiwi Experience buses stop at a place called River Valley, an adventure lodge located in Taihape of the Rangitikei district. Nestled between the hills, the lodge is in the middle of nowhere and after your overnight stay you can choose from the morning activities; riding or rafting. As i ride at home, i opted to hit the river with the majority of my fellow Kiwi-ers and even our bus driver came with us on his kayak. I had been rafting once before in Tennessee on my Trek America trip but this rafting trip was a completely different experience. We hit grade 5 rapids, people fell out, we flipped the boat, we jumped off cliffs, i nearly drowned (twice) and it was incredible! I’m now planning to go rafting in Wales this summer and even have my eyes set on the Zambezi river challenge.

Lisa's rather impressive dive. Much better than my flop off the edge.
Lisa’s rather impressive dive. Much better than my flop off the edge.

It is said that a trip to the land of the long white cloud, is not complete without throwing yourself off a ledge. There are bungys everywhere across the country but the majority of our bus left this activity till one of our last stops – Queenstown. Queenstown is known as the hub of the adrenaline seekers and everywhere you go in the town you are continually reminded of bungys, canyon swings, snowboarding, mountain biking, jet boating – its unmissable. There are three to choose from in the Queenstown area; Kawarua Bridge (world’s first bungy), The Nevis (New Zealand’s highest – which has “nope nope nope” written all over it) and The Ledge Bungy. The Ledge seemed the least terrifying but we found out that it is actually the one that people back out of most. This is a little different to the standard bungy jump too. Instead of having your feet attached to the bungy cord, you are attached by a chest and waist harness. So instead of jumping from a standing position, you have the freedom of a runway. This allows you to dive, somersault or even handstand off the edge. Or in my case, just sort offlop off very ungracefully. Whilst it was the scariest moment of my entire 23.5 years, i am so happy that i managed it. I also had a raging hangover at the time and it appears that stomach churning fear is the perfect cure.

Sunset in Queenstown, New Zealand.

Out of all the places that i visited, it was Queenstown that really stood out to me and i could have spent a lot more time there. It is quite a small town compared to Christchurch and Auckland but it offers a lot to locals and tourists alike. I was fortunate enough to spend my Christmas day in 30ºC temperatures on the shores of Lake Wakatipu. We jumped off the pier, drank champagne on the pebble beach and watched the sun set over the mountains. We even made it into a article and it’s definitely one Christmas i will never forget. I believe everyone should spend the holidays away from home at least once in their lifetime – its a memorable experience but it really makes you value friends, family and the comforts of home. Although having a hot Christmas was something that had to be done, i’m not sure i could ever trade it for my northern hemisphere festivities. There’s something not right about wearing a Santa hat and a bikini at the same time.

Frolicking in the lake on Christmas Day. Little bit chilly.

Overall, New Zealand completely won me over and ended up being my favourite country of the trip.

I have vowed to return one day and next time, i’ll be doing The Nevis. Maybe

The Round The World Trip

The Round The World Trip

“If travel has momentum and wants to stay in motion, then adventure has the gravitational pull of a black hole. The more you do it, the more you find a way to keep doing it.” –  Josh Gates

As you can probably guess from previous posts, my trip with Trek America gave me the travelling bug. For the first time i was feeling an overwhelming need to travel and i was plotting my next trip from the departures lounge of LAX. I suddenly realised that i was capable of travelling solo and i decided that a big trip was in order to try and satiate my wander-lusting.

Over the years i had specific places in mind that i wanted to visit, but i never thought that i could manage to backpack my way around them. As embarrassing as this is to admit, i could barely catch the train to London by myself when i was 18. As a shy, timid teenager, the thought of negotiating the UK rail system was terrifying. Now i have turned into a wander-lusting monstrosity who barely bats an eyelid at the thought of a 16 hour journey through Asian border crossings. So, if you are in that mindset where that travel itch has begun but you are unsure of how you will cope, as cliche as this soundsif i can do it – you definitely can.

Chilling out in the Chiang Mai countryside.

The journey itself began from a conversation that was sparked over a Starbucks coffee with my Trek Buddy, Lisa. This meeting was only about a month after we had returned from our America trip but the planning didn’t start until early 2012. The trip was hashed out over frequent Facebook messages, a plan that was altered many times over the following months. These alterations were mostly due to financial costings whilst we attempted to calculate the price of flights, travel insurance, gear etc. But there were also other factors to take into account such as weather and the cost of daily living.

I am aware that some travelers choose not to prepare trips, but we didn’t fancy getting caught short in a monsoon or risk missing out on something spectacular along the way. There seem to be two main types of backpackers on the road; there is the traveler that plans and scrutinizes their itinerary and the other that buys a plane ticket and makes it up as she/he goes along. I began as the first type but once i got going, i naturally fell into the latter. The itinerary we had carefully planned was promptly screwed up and left in a Base hostel somewhere on New Zealand’s North Island.

Clockwise from Top Left: Paihia, New Zealand,;Chiang Mai, Thailand; Maheno Shipwreck, Fraser Island, Australia; Ta Phrom, Angkor, Cambodia.

However, we did have a basic plan. Our trip was to run from the end of November to May, or whenever our finances dried up (which ended up being a lot sooner than expected) We were to spend a definite month in New Zealand, a month in Australia and the rest of the time exploring the cheaper countries of South East Asia. The flights were booked in June with STA Travel and for the last few months before our departure, we scrounged as many pennies out of our paychecks as possible. In no time at all, it was November 29th and it was time to leave the comforts of home. I do not have the literary capacity to express what i felt on the lead up to that day. The anxiety and the sheer excitement was a lot more concentrated than my Trek America trip, despite going alone. This time i was travelling with a friend, but we no longer had that comfort of a group tour or guide. It was up to us and it was an entirely different experience.

Overall it was the greatest three months of my life. I learnt a lot, met some amazing people and saw some unforgettable places. There is a sense of freedom being able to carry your possessions on your back and head off to another new destination at a moments notice. Initially this can be rather challenging and physically demanding but it soon becomes a way of life. And its a pretty good life!  I mean, just look at this beach!

Whitehaven Beach
Whitehaven Beach, Australia

But as any world traveler will tell you, things do not necessarily go to plan, but that’s all part of the fun. You will encounter difficulties, your plans will change and you may even find yourself in potentially dangerous situations. The biggest change in the trip was that my travel bud decided to go home half way through our month in Australia. The prospect of being on my own was initially terrifying and all these backpacking fears resurfaced. Yet it turns out that you are never really on your own, especially when you stay in hostels. There is always someone to talk to and i actually met a lot more people this way. Well, either that or i was just forcing my friendship upon unsuspecting victims. So now i have seen both sides of travelling; with and without a travel partner. Both have their positives and their negatives and i’m still not sure which one i prefer as they are two completely different journeys.

Successfully smiling through the fear.

The other problem that i ran into was my finances. It turns out that i had too much of a good time and six months turned into three months. I was home by March instead of May. Believe me, i did hours of research on costs and spending, but you can never really have an accurate idea until you reach your destination. Budgets will vary from person to person; what i spend in a day, may be double what another individual would spend. I could have ate ramen noodles for the entire duration of the trip, but i probably would not have enjoyed the trip as much. I just like food too much! I also ended up doing activities that i had not planned for but ended up doing anyway, such as my bungy jump. Although i am VERY glad i got persuaded into doing that one!

Despite all these challenges i faced, i would not have changed anything about the trip. It was a roller coaster at times, but it was an incredible journey that has given more than just memories. If you are currently thinking about going travelling, i cannot stress enough just how much you should just take the plunge and go for it. The saving and sacrifices are hard work but they will be worth it. The new games console or expensive dress you couldn’t afford will not matter once you are on that beach sipping cocktails under a palm tree. A Facebook status from my friend summed up travelling for me, it simply said;

“Experiences > Things”

 And i completely agree.

15 Tips for Trek America Trips

Top 15 Tips for a Trek America Trip

As a spontaneously booked trip – i went into this adventure rather blind. I had no idea what to expect. I  scoured the internet to try and read about other people’s experiences but to no avail. Hence, this blog was born. Now i get to educate all of you lucky Trekkies-to-be, before you set out on your own American adventure. Below are a list of things i feel may help you. If you are looking for a more specialised list of what you should take. hop on over to my other pages “Trek America Tips – Part One” and “Trek America Tips – The Girly Section” for all things tent and luggage related.

1. Scout out areas for setting up your tent. Why? Well first of all you do not want to be sleeping on a slope or in a patch of mud, but most importantly its for bug avoidance. We actually put our tent on a spiders nest on our first night, luckily these were of  the nicer, non-venomous type! Nice, flat grassy areas are a winner, avoid the edges of wooded areas and make sure there are no ants before you plonk your ground sheet down. They are the worst.

An accurate photo of the spider tent

2. Keep the tent shut at all times. And i mean as soon as you step outside. This is a massive hassle but you really do not want any unexpected intruders.  I recently spoke to a friend of mine who had camped in the Grand Canyon and ended up getting stung by a scorpion which had crawled into his sleeping bag. Turns out its not the most fun of experiences and the venom will actually make your skeleton hurt. Yes, you read that correctly – your skeleton.

3. Mosquito repellent is a necessity – I traveled from New York to LA between late June and July, and got eaten alive  from Washington until San Antonio. You can buy own brand (Superdrug/Boots etc) repellent which is a lot cheaper than the others on the market. Just make sure you have a high percentage of Deet in whichever one you go for. Don’t rely on the natural products, they will probably just make you smell tastier.

4. Louboutins will not be necessary –  Hush, girls. You are now travelers and we have no space for such trinkets in our packs. However, i do suggest bringing some less casual, going out type clothes. We ended up going out to bars a lot more than i thought we would. However, six inch shoes are not recommended, especially as you will probably be staying in a tent.

5. Go photo crazy – I took around 400 photos and i still feel this wasn’t enough. Perfect profile picture moments were missed out on, as were hilarious video moments. Embrace your inner tourist and take as many as possible. You will need something to look back and reminisce on.

Hundreds of photos like these? Okay.

6. Budgeting for the Small Things – You will have a food kitty to pay into and a large section of your budget will be for the daily activities. However, there were a few other things that my credit card took a pounding from; tipping, VAT and snacks. Waiters/waitresses and bar staff live off the tips they get, so be generous when you are being served. VAT is a little strange here as America have decided that its a good idea to add this on when you go to pay rather than on the actual price tag. And as for snacks, i think i bought something at every single gas station stop and it did add up … onto my budget and my waistline.

7. Shower Gauntlet – Try and get up earlier than everyone else so you can get to the showers first. This is especially true when you are at a campsite with other trek groups. Guys, you don’t need to worry about this part. Girls, prepare yourselves! If in doubt, dry shampoo it.

8. Stay Connected – Make sure you all swap numbers on the FIRST day. We all added each other on Facebook but never got round to exchanging digits. You aren’t going to need to make lengthy calls to your new friend, but one or two texts wont hurt. This is especially important once you reach those unfamiliar cities, and find yourself completely lost.

9. Medical Supplies – Bring plasters for flip flop and/or shoe related blisters. Your Trek Leader will have a first aid kit but plan ahead for small injuries or cuts, you may end up having a few.

10. Comfortable (Ugly) Footwear – Invest in some Teva’s, Karrimor Sandals or something similar. Yes, i am aware that they can be ugly, Jesus -sandals, but they are also very comfy! They can also be quite expensive, although mine have now been around the world with me – two years and still going! Plan ahead, see them as an investment for future travel.

11. Be Odd – Being weird is totally acceptable behaviour, just be yourself! I became so much more confident and outgoing after this trip. Throwing yourself out of your comfort zone once in a while is very good for you.

Elvis Travis down in the Grand Canyon

12. Select A Mascot – You will need a van mascot. Ours was a blow up alien and he went everywhere with us – from the Grand Canyon to crazy nights out. He even got his own Facebook page.

13. Mingle – If you are travelling alongside another van (which happens quite often with the Southern Sun trip) make sure you get to know them as they will become your extended Trek family. I find that 80% of travelling is making new friends. And the other 20% is spent getting drunk with them.

14. Confrontation avoidance – There may be times when you want to throw another individual into a canyon. Be patient, its an intense three weeks, there are a lot of personalities and there are bound to be conflicts at some point. Trust me, they do blow over.

15. Enjoy Yourself – Finally, be super positive and enjoy every single moment. It will all be over before you know it.

Sunrise at the Canyon

Trek America Tips – The Girly Section

Trek America Tips – The Girly Section

Whilst i was writing this post, i found that my section devoted to all things female related was getting rather lengthy. Therefore, i have created a post of its own. Yay. Whee.

New Orleans, fourth of July. It was all downhill from here.

1. “What about my hair?!”

Let us first address this topic of great importance. Girls…you can breathe a sigh of relief, for your straightners can come with you. The campsites are pretty decent and can accomodate our beauty regimes. But do not forgot to bring plug adaptors! These are essential if you want to put on your hot girl disguises. I have unruly hair and managed to straighten it whenever i wanted to – just make sure you get up early enough. There’s nothing worse than fighting for plug space in your PJs.

Along with your straighteners, the beloved hair dryers can also make an appearance on your trip. However, do be aware that blasting hot air on your face, whilst in the middle of Texas is not an enjoyable experience. Your hair will probably dry as soon as you step outside anyway.

If you have purchased a travel hair dryer, you will need to change the wattage settings which is usually done by switching a button on the dryer itself. We failed to notice this until the end of the trip when it finally starting working at full capacity. Oh and don’t forget to switch back when you get home, or you could have a dead hairdryer and a possible electrical fire on your hands.

A shower gauntlet commences.

2. The Shower Gauntlet

The shower gauntlet is the early morning challenge that each one of us came to dread. When it comes to showering during the trip, it may feel like you are living with 20+ women with one bathroom. This was magnified tenfold when it came to sharing the campsites with other trek groups, including vans full of hot Norwegian teenagers. It was utter chaos.

The only lie-ins you will get on your trip, will be on the days that you are in a town for more than a single night. Even then you will be up at sunrise, unless you feel like baking in your tent. When we had a long drive of more than 5 hours (aka. quality van time) you could find yourself back in the van by as early as 7:30am.

My tips for surviving such a gruelling task:-

  • Set your alarm early.  Try and remember to turn off the snooze before you head for the shower block too. It infuriates the sleeping boys.
  • Get organised. Countless times we made the walk to the showers, only to forget our towels or something equally as essential.
  • A healthy dose of patience.

Having male trek leaders may also complicate the shower gauntlets (not that i would have traded them for anyone else!) With all guys, your leader may not understand the concept of getting ready or its ritualistic properties. You may even have to put on your transformations within half an hour. Take this opportunity to embrace the natural look, for you are beautiful and do not need to slap layers of crap onto your face. This also means more time for campsite pre-gaming! Priorities.

3. Standards Will Slip

At first your standards are high. There are people you don’t know, there may be guys and you will want to make a good first impression. Yeah, well…that doesn’t last, give it a good three days of living in tents and outdoorsy activities for this to occur. At times you will be dirty, sweaty and looking disheveled but you are all in the same boat van. You will make a fool of yourself when you are drunk and you will also embarrass yourself when you are completely sober. These end up being your fondest memories!

As for your makeup regime, remember that foundation in 30c+ temperatures is grim and one way to look extra shiny for your photos. Save it for the nights out if you can. Despite all of this talk of going au-naturale, im sure taking extra girly equipment won’t hurt your baggage allowance.

Why make an effort? You'll just end up looking like this.

 4. Trek Attire

I can imagine that any guys reading this will be rolling their eyes at this section (if they haven’t done so already/are still reading this) This is important for us!

What you take will depend on your trip and the time of year that you travel. I opted for the southern states during mid summer, therefore it was hothothot and i was wearing as little as possible.

A plentiful amount of T-shirts and vest tops were all in my luggage. Shorts, skirts, a dress and pair of jeans for the colder evenings. You will probably live in your flip flops for the majority of the trip but i also had a nice pair of flats, trainers for hiking and some Teva sandals. Tevas are those ugly looking sports sandals that are usually worn by old people and teamed with socks. Yet, despite their appearance they were useful after my flip flops gave me a nice cut that became infected. For hiking the canyons i took my trainers and they served their purpose well. I would probably not bother with hiking boots as they tend to be heavy and unnecessary for a trip like this. As for evening activities, we ended up going out a lot more than i had anticipated and i wish i had taken some nicer clothes with me. As for heels, mine stayed at home and i didn’t miss them. The only place you would probably wear them would be Vegas and although it is one big ol’ party town, you will be doing a lot of walking. But if your heart is set on hitting the clubs, then go for it if you have room in your luggage. Another very important item to pack for Vegas is a nice dress – anything that has your boobs and/or legs out will be perfect!

Remember that you will be travelling across America, not Central Asia. So. if you forget something, it won’t be the end of the world. I’m sure you will be able to buy a replacement with relative ease at a Walmart store. Oh god and bikinis – don’t forget them! I’m looking at you, tent bud. 

Vegas Dress - boobs out, legs out.